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What to Expect From a Child Custody Mediation Session

November 27, 2020
Posted By: Robert M. Kaplan
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Do you have questions about how child custody in Schaumburg, IL works? If so, you are not alone. The legal system can be confusing, and it’s normal for emotions to run high when you’re in situations that involve your children and family. 

If you are preparing for your first child custody mediation session, it’s helpful to work alongside an experienced family law attorney who can offer advice and help with the preparation. Here at the Law Offices of Robert M. Kaplan, we are prepared to answer your questions and assist in any way we can. 

How to Prepare for Mediation in Schaumburg

The overall goal of any child custody mediation is to determine an outcome that will be best for the child or children involved. The mediator, along with the judge assigned to your family law case, will be looking for cooperation and compromise from you and your spouse so everyone can create a plan that will benefit your children. 

To best prepare for mediation, you should spend some time brainstorming different scenarios and factors that will affect the final custody agreement. For example, it’s helpful to make lists or jot down notes that discuss:

  • Your concerns about the other parent’s parenting style or living arrangements
  • Why your home is an ideal place for your child/children to spend time, and, specifically, whether each child will have their own room and living space 
  • Your family situation and relationship with your parents, siblings, and extended family members
  • Your current employment situation, including any irregular hours you may work or extended periods of time where you plan to be out of town
  • Your “parenting timeline” up to this point and how much time you have generally spent with each child since your initial separation

The Mediation Process

While every case is different, you can expect your child custody mediation to last for approximately half of the day. Your mediator will speak with both parties to learn more about your parenting goals and why you’re seeking mediation, to begin with. 

If a divorce lawyer represents you, they may attend your mediation with you and help answer any specific questions that arise. Often, it’s helpful to simply have your attorney there for moral support. 

Even though you may not be on great terms with your ex-spouse, it’s imperative to remain respectful and courteous during your mediation. If you have outstanding grudges or personal conflicts with your ex, you need to set them aside during mediation so the process can be effective. Remember, you are both there to create a plan that’s best for your child or children, and this meeting is not really about you.

Contact Robert M. Kaplan Today

If you have additional concerns about your upcoming mediation for child custody in Schaumburg, IL, or if you’re interested in hiring a family law attorney to represent your case, please call us today at (847) 845-9477.

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